OBSERVATION IN THE WORLD

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As I’m studying and sit back and watch family, friends, and others around the world whether in person or on social media, I find there is favoritism to some. Make sense? That those who are more “followed ” noticed, more connected, and suffering more ( even vulnerable) has and get more support, attention, help, guidance, praises and non judgement.

Being bullied for a physical or emotional illness. For looks, wealth, talents, religion and more. How it’s fine for family members to reach out and it’s all great and caring. But for others it’s “you’re crazy ” or ” who cares” same with online or among friends. Why should certain ones be noticed and not all?

For those that are suffering in silence or not that have tremendous trials or going through things that family, friends or others may know tend to be judged, offended, forgotten, unappreciated, not helped in any way and more or less ” oh, you’re strong” ” you’ll get through it” “someone else is suffering worse” “you chose certain choices, so that’s why you’re suffering physically, emotionally, or financially”

It erks me to see the comparisons. The words, the actions, and hurt. As I’ve always support all I can in any way. I know we all suffer and handle ourselves in our own way. But I don’t choose one person more than the other because of “popularity of their struggles” make sense?

I find in this world we’re all important. I have seen the side of being pushed aside because of those that ASSUME I’m strong. Assume that my depression, anxiety, bullying, emotional, physical and financial struggles aren’t important. But I can easily be there for another without question.

My thought process sees this all the time. And when you’ve endured it , it makes you more empathetic and strong to love another more. I wish we could all be on the same page. And that if someone reaches for help whether in person, online, in text or however, to listen. To not judge. Just be there. Vulnerability is wonderful for that’s how we work on becoming better. But pushing others aside for someone else’s life or story, is the most evil way I see .

We all matter. We all need support. And it should happen before things get worse or yo late. Each of us is human and not a number. Not a idol nor a prize. Our emotions and struggles are important.

I don’t know if this makes sense, but does yo me. And I love working on my degree in family science to better understand not only myself but others. For we all need someone.

Thoughts for the soul ♡

Wherever you are and whoever you are, you are enough. No amount of weakness, sickness, trials, judgment, flaws, success or failure can take that away.

You have to believe in you. Believe that you matter. Your voice, your color, your talents, your soul, your passions, your heart, and most of all yourself .

I believe in the deepest of all souls. In the right to make your own decisions and free agency. Yes, I get judged, bullied, talked about, push aside and other things. I’ve been down and heartbroken. My weakness have tried to get the best of me.

Yet I am working on my progress. On my depression and anxiety. My diabetes, pain, discomfort and other health issues. Working at become better financially. Working towards a more wonderful relationships with my husband, step kids, family and friends. Forgiving. Accepting and moving one step at a time.

Using my passions of singing, writing, photography, art, crafts and more to better understand myself and others. Sharing my experiences and fighting stage fright.

Is this easy? Ha!nothing is easy. If you want something you have to work for it. Just as others do the same. May not be your way. May not be your thing. Yet, we are all in the same boat, just different places. We all matter. Go find yourself. Go uplift others. Telling myself the same. We got this.

Thoughts for everyday upliftment

All the best

♡jackie hall ♡

SEE THE BEAUTY

A beautiful reminder how blessed we are in this beautiful world.
Not only that but how special each and eveyone of us are. We are all beautiful, unique, priceless and talented. Wherever we are on this beautiful earth, we all matter.

Let us be the light to the world and build not only ourselves but others, especially during times of physical, emotional, spiritual, or financial struggles.

Not all of us is strong. Some face different challenges. No one is worth more . We all handle things in our own way. Supporting each other’s emotions, decisions,choices and talents will help break the wall of judgements.

Come together ♡♡♡

Expressions and Gifts

Your mind can be a beautiful thing. Full of imagination and dreams.

It can also detour you to having fear . Not expressing, coming out of your shell.

No one in s better or perfect. We’re given talents. We’re given opportunities. So reach inside your mind and heart and Express. Express as if no one is seeing. Believe in you
I love art. Love music,writing,photography and more. What’s your passions?

Let Out Emotions. Be You

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motions are real. They come in different ways. You may feel anger, sadness, joy, happy, bored, scared, or other things.

Using my camera to check a bump on my head which is very sensitive . My great Dane and her rope decided to whack me. When you have plate and screws it doesn’t help.

I’m used to holding my tears in and being comfort to others. My tears are still flowing and not just because of a whack to side of head. From those that leave us to go be with God. From hardships financially, physical pain, depression, anxiety and your heart wanting to help so many. To stop abuse, hatred, bullying and more.
Mental illness is real. Feelings are real. Having challenges are real. And sometimes music, service, singing, writing, photography and more won’t help. Helping others by letting them know to express, feel and let it out IS ALRIGHT. IT’S A BEAUTIFUL THING. It may be 540am and I may have been up all night with school, prayer, pain, worry, emotions, and hardships of finding work. I am me. This is me. I’m not afraid of being me.

It just felt so dang good to let loose. Be not ashamed. You’re amazing and beautiful. Goes to all people. We all have feelings.
My prayers and love to all. And to all that struggle. IT’S OKAY ♡♡

I AM CAPABLE AND BEAUTIFUL

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truggles to see the beauty of ourselves can have an impact. Since I was little to now I’ve fought seeing my worth and beauty.
Fame isn’t real. No one is better than anyone else on any talent, sport, looks, actions or whatever else. We’re all gifted in many ways.
Growing up as an adopted child, going through so much bullying , judging, depression, weight gain, and 2 abusive marriages. I lost myself.
I would always compare and worry what others would think. I wanted the “genes”of my family that adopted me. Or the smarts and talents like my twin sister
When I look at these pictures, I Think ” Wow” i was beautiful and talented. I still am. High school was really rough. 9 surgeries and other challenges was tough. But I am beautiful and alive. Then having a major surgery with plate and screws in my neck with spine crushing 2017 I thought I’d lose my passion in music. It’s the most beautiful scar. I’m alive, happy and accepting. Which leaves a scar. Because I’m beautiful I am capable of doing anything. Found love again. Going after my passions.
Take each day to remember we’re here as a child of God. To not focus on our flaws, but learn help build others up. I’m sure everyone wants to be noticed, loved, appreciated and so much more. So, why don’t we help make that happen. Good to be different. Bad to judge and compare. Embrace life and each other. See your beauty. For your heart breaks, trials, illnesses ,scars and so much more is what makes you priceless and amazing. Go do it. Be YOU. SAY IT I AM CAPABLE OF LOVING, ACCEPTING AND BEING WHO I AM. ~Jackie